My last words to my father were that lfe has passed him by, my meaning the way he lived in his youth and later life had landed him sick for the last 15 years of his life. At 72 at this moment in time ,equals the years that he was on earth. If I died today my amount of sick time was minium mostly caused by my year in war. Father was not the greatest of men, in fact as he lived his life primarly for only the moment with 7 kids and a wife until she slipped away one night, when I being the oldest, was 14.